Saturday, March 05, 2011

The Toy Monster Strikes (finally)!!!!!

After years of threats, the Toy Monster finally followed through and "ate" the girls toys. We made up this idea of a "Toy Monster" to help motivate Ella and Ruby to clean up their toys. If their toys weren't cleaned up at night, then a monster (that only ate toys, not kids) would come and gobble up the toys that were left out. It worked pretty well for a long time. They would clean up their toys every night so they wouldn't get eaten. After a while, and especially after friends would come over to play, the cleaning up wasn't getting done. If it did get "cleaned", stuff was shoved in corners or put in the wrong bins. Our playroom was out of control. I know we have far too many toys, but when you have a giant room above the garage, there's space for all the toys.

I had finally had enough of the play room being a disaster, so last night, the Toy Monster paid us a little visit. 40 minutes and 7 bags later, there wasn't a whole lot left in that room.

He left a little note on the door, written in mud (aka chocolate pudding)...


I wish I had taken a before picture, but I was too fired up and just wanted to get it done. Just imagine not being able to see the floor and "set-ups" (or, as I like to call them, "piles of junk") made by Ella all over the place. Toys that were in their correct spots got to stay. Here is the after:



The loot in the attic. 7 garbage bags full, plus a ride-on toy and baby crib. Yeah, we have way too many toys.



Here was Ella's reaction after she went upstairs to get her stuffed panda bear. She was very sad, but MISSED THE WHOLE POINT! She immediately said, "Mom, we have to go today and buy some new toys!"

To which I said, "No. We don't have money for new toys."

Her idea was, "We have to get some money! We could use what we have in our piggy banks." (Which is probably 37 cents).

I tried to explain that what she really needed to do is take care of the toys she had. Hopefully, it's starting to sink in.


Ruby walked around the play room taking stock of all the toys the Toy Monster didn't get. She kept saying, "The Toy Monster is mean!" but she never cried.



And Annie couldn't care less. As long as she has her book with a picture of a cow in it (her new favorite word), she's happy as a clam!

So here's my dilemma...what do I do with the toys? I definitely think we need to cut back on the amount of toys we have, so I don't want to bring them all back. But that's also hundreds of dollars worth of toys that I don't want to just get rid of. They really enjoy playing with most of them. Should they be able to earn them back? I haven't really planned the final outcome of this little fable. I realize they are kids, and kids are messy, but it was out of control. I definitely want them to learn their lesson.

One other perk of the Toy Monster taking their toys is that they aren't mad at us, because "we" aren't the ones who took their toys. They are mad at the TM, but I just keep explaining that he was just doing his job and they were the ones that made the mess. Them's the breaks!!!!


(And I will finish blogging about Arizona, Christmas activities, actual Christmas, New Years at Disney World, fun in the snow, a Valentine's Day party, a weekend in Chapel Hill, etc., etc. at some point. Maybe in this lifetime. )

9 comments:

Melanie said...

good for you! yes I think the kids should be able to earn them back, you should have a sit down with the toy monster and make a deal. but the deal should be something the girls have come up with or agreed to, like continuing to clean up, or they are gone for good! But maybe only bring back some of the toys, since you want to not have so many out.

Melanie said...

by the way, Annie is soooo cute!!!!!

creed and tiffany said...

You are a genius! What a fabulous idea! I am going to try that seeing as we have the same problem! I seriously love that picture of Ella! So sad, yet so funny. It's hard to know what to do with all those toys huh? You spent so much money so you want those things worn to the ground. But, you don't want spoiled kids. The only thing I can think of is to rotate them, but i've never had the space for that. Keep us updated on what you decide!

Lopez-kids said...

We used to do the toy monster too. It is effective, but doesn't solve to problem with too many toys! Now, I have all the toys in bins, seperated by category (dolls, dress-up, blocks, misc.). I put them all up on high shelves and get one down at a time. The rule is the toys that are out go back in the bin before another one comes down. It totally works! On occasion, when we have visitors, I pull multiple bins down and it turns into a huge mess, but that is only every now and then. Much more manageble! It also helps with the toy buying. I usually try to buy toys that will fit in the bins (playdoh acessories, dress-up, doll stuff, etc.). Of course, if I ever have boys, my system will need some adjustments! lol!

Knit Wit said...

Love it! We had a similar problem but with no toy room. Our girls share a room and the toys are kept in the closet. After many threats I'd had enough and put a lock on the closet door. They can only get out one toy at a time. When their done and that toy is cleaned up they can get something else. It works pretty good.

I like the idea of the kids earning the toys back. Good luck!

Emily said...

I love it! I am soooo gonna do try it! I am so done with ME CLEANING UP TOYS!!! I have put all their stuff in a pile and gave them a time limit...like 1 1/2 hours.... ha ha! But what ever is left is packed up and thrown out! or put up where they can't see it! But they didn't seem to care. I'm gonna do this maybe they will understand more!

sarah said...

I have done similar things (we have way to many toys too), I then keep a bunch away and bring some back in sperts, switching them out. Basically only keeping out about a 25% of there toys at a time. I might have to steal the toy monster idea :)

Laney said...

That picture of Ella makes me want to cry! I say let them earn the toys back. I like Melanie's idea. When I was younger our toys (and clothes, shoes, etc) would go on "vacation" for undetermined amounts of time if we left them out.

mama_pj said...

I love the idea of making a deal with the Toy Monster! Maybe they could earn them back with good behavior or chores. Jana puts about half of the toys away and then brings them out when the kids get tired of the ones they are currently playing with...I didn't do anything so cool...I would get exasperated and pick them up myself...thank goodness they all finally learned how to pick up after themselves. Unfortunately, I can't take much credit. :)